Meanwhile, I have to guard against too much pondering. This is the time when my mind turns to my beloved other country, Australia. It has now been twelve years since I departed its shores, but I had spent more of my life there than in any other place... I will have to live until I am 79 to equal the same number of years in Scotland as I spent in OZ. That may not seem like a big number to some, but this body has always been older than its apparent years, and to reach 79 would be a milestone for many reasons. Apart from one exception, on my mother's side of the family, 77 was the oldest. From my father's genes, there's a greater (though still slim) chance of reaching the 80s. The fact is, I am my maternal grandmother's double, and she popped her clogs in her sleep aged 68. I am working on the basis that, if I survive the next 18 months, I'll beat her record at least!
Aside from the chronic arthritis, asthma (mainly contained), and CFS/ME, my general health is pretty good. I don't have to rely on any regular medications, and although I can no longer take long hikes or contemplate any form of running, I do stretches every morning, have seat pedals to work the legs (and lungs), and do enjoy a wee jaunt with the Rolls-later when the weather permits.

I have noted that I seem to have acclimatised completely to Scottish weather. Apart from the raw, damp edge that can happen on some winter days, I mostly don't really feel the cold. Mainly because I am so happy to wrap up in all the stuff I keep producing with yarns and hooks! I have always loved layering. In OZ, there is no such thing as central heating, so one endured the cold winters (and despite what you may think, Sydney could quite often drop to low single figures centigrade, and we even had snow a couple of winters, which is unusual). I did have a little electric fire, which the J's always enjoyed. So I was able to layer up with my woollies of all types there, as well. One or two of you had noted that I appeared all wrapped up here at the Hutch; that is because, usually, I don't bother switching on the heating. This is not, as might be thought, a cost-cutting exercise, but simply that I do not like too much artificial heat. I learned to live without it, and it is one of the things that I really had to grit my teeth about in that year I spent nursing dad (2020...) He refused to wrap up in any way, even a knee blanket, and wanted the central heating on tropical.
Now, I am a tropical gal - when in the tropics. I have no problem at all dealing with the heat and humidity. However, the artificial heating here in the UK is mostly overwhelming. It has a lot to do with the fact that windows are tight shut - and if there is anything else the YAMster is, it's a fresh air gal! I got in such trouble for even cracking the kitchen window to try and breathe... ugh... flashbacks.
I have always been a beanie/toque gal. Even when I had a full head of hair (and I did have a LOT of hair until 'menopolyxinaemia' took its toll), I was always sensitive to cold on my crown. Now, after meno and with the additional hit of the balding gene (got that from father, at least!), I have very little hair on top, which is one of the reasons I took the shears to what was left of length. Now, full-time headgear is a must. So, expect to see yet more works of wool art in that department!
Anyway, that's my yarn for today. Oh yes, even after more than a decade away, I still have Aussie in my speech. You can take the girl out of, and all that... to yarn is to natter, have a chinwag in Aussie. (Unlike the pure English usage of 'are you spinning me one?') There are some things totally ingrained; I even still come out with dollars and cents at times. Hey ho...
There are lots of you who participate in the meme of Thankful Thursday - let me today say thank you for reading that blather and note that I am grateful to a life that has afforded me worldwide travel and experience. Many memories to serve however many years are left.

Sounds like you are doing pretty well! Wishing more years of the same.
ReplyDeleteIf we go by our paternal genes, Hubby and I are in for the long haul. His parents lived to be 89 (father) and 99 (mom). Mine were 90 (dad short by 5 weeks) and 96 (mom). Hubby is already working on 86 and is doing pretty good. I am 79 and great for my age is what the doctors say. But you do so much more than either of us. Keep up the good life!
ReplyDeleteYour healthy attitude will take you far enough to visit any place...
ReplyDeleteI loved reading this personal and candid piece, Yamini. You do indeed sound quite healthy.
ReplyDeleteYou are free of medications to keep you going. I am on statin to keep my lipid profile in check, which otherwise is on a runaway trip in spite of my controlled diet and active lifestyle. I also pop a tablet first thing in the morning to keep my TSH (thyroid) in control.
More than half of what our body is depends on how our mind is. And you have a very positive and healthy attitude towards life. That alone will keep you going really far. Wish you good health and many more years of cheerful life, Yamini.
I keep the windows cracked open in our bedrooms, even now in the midst of winter! Hubby prefers hotter, but I truly don't "do" hot!
ReplyDeleteHubby has already outlived his brother and father. His mom lived well into her 90's, albeit with a lot of health issues and dementia.
We're both 70, and I still work about 3-4 times a mionth in the nursing home, and I shovel our snow, and mow our acre of property...keep me fit, though I can tell when I have overdone it. Hopefully the OA I have won't get worse...nor any return of the cancer I had way back in 2006/7.
You always look fresh and cheerful when I see you in pictures. Attitude is what helps so much, in so many ways!
that sounds very positive... we love to hear some aussi, that are sweet memories...
ReplyDeleteIf a great mental attitude is what makes the difference, YAM, then you are on a path to longevity. We hope to make the journey with you.
ReplyDeleteWe love getting to know you better and we pray that you live many more years!
ReplyDeleteIt's all about enjoying the time we have, and you sure are excelling at that!!
ReplyDeleteAfter all 'Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away'!
ReplyDeleteYour cheerful and sensible attitude, curiosity and appreciation of life are worth their weight in gold. We don't know how much time we each will be given; it's wise to make the very best we can of today.
ReplyDeleteMy mother, her sister, all my grandmothers sister, 4 of them and my mothers mother all died by age 63, I am a carbon copy pea from their pod in looks and my grandmother personaitly. I am 3 months past 81, each year I celebrate another year past 63.. Prayers you will too and I believe you might. from the time I was 15 and we left Kentucky after 5 years there, I longed for Ky, I think I passed that longing about age 40 when I started long for Florida and now I have been here half my life.
ReplyDeleteHello,
ReplyDeleteI do wish you have many more years. I agree about loving life to the fullest, no one really knows when their time will be up.
Take care, enjoy your day!