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Menokreatikkul; Saturday Stitches


A Brief History of YAM Yarning

It will have escaped the notice of none of you, dear readers, that crochet is my 'thang'... I love to hook with yarn of all types. All my aunts - and two uncles - knitted. One grandmother crocheted. Learning to knit was derigeur. Ever the one to break away, I remember learning to crochet most. It was the one thing that brought me closer to my father's mother, who was something of a difficult personality. Not known for her patience, she seemed transformed when it came to sharing her craft. Whereas my mother, a patient woman in so many respects, was not the most patient of teachers, whether in school subjects, sewing, or wool crafts. It is partly because of that often very critical voice that, to this day, I have no interest or desire to sew. It is also that voice which interrupted my knitting career. Having completed a quite fine fisherman's sweater for my boyfriend at that time (which he wore often and cheerfully), she couldn't help but tell me how it could have been improved... That was nearly forty years ago, and I haven't lifted knitting pins since.

When I inherited the stash of mum's homespun and other yarns, I also got all her knitting paraphernalia. So many knitting pins and bits. Aitch is a knitter, and she gladly received a lot of the better items. My mother would be thrilled to know she had them. There were quite a few doubles and oddments left over, though, so they went to the charity store. There was one pair of wood pins, size 10mm (large), that, for sentimental reasons, I held onto. They have resided in my main accoutrement bag for years, and I have occasionally cursed them for being in the way. They stick out/up and somehow always manage to catch my sleeves, no matter how careful I am. Ghosts, haunting me.

...And then...

The new year of 2026 came, and I realised that I had lost track of what exactly I had in my yarn stash. I do have quite a stash still sitting in The Grey. I probably need to bring that all upstairs to the Hutch to have a proper inventory. That said, I have a good grasp of what's down there. However, I hadn't really checked my cupboard upstairs in quite some time. Make that years. More than one makes it multiple. Even when I did go in there (maybe eighteen months back), it was only to retrieve one bag in particular with all the single and part-skeins that I wanted to use up. What I had stored in the three large boxes and four large bags was now something of a mystery or, at best, a vague memory.

Out it all came and now sits all over my lounge. I have a lot of yarn, and I need to be busy! One lot I recalled having bought with Mac1 in mind for a cardigan. That has been produced (you'll see it when she has). It was crocheted and surprisingly quickly made (three evenings).  I had a bit of the darker teal and a tiny amount from the brown alpaca left over from my recent wrap and decided it wasn't enough to crochet a beanie, but.... wait for it... remembering that knitting uses less yarn, I picked up those pesky wooden pins...


It's a bit of a novelty! I wasn't even sure I remembered how to cast on - a quick reminder via that great training facility, the tubular channel, it was like a duck to water. 

Imagine my surprise/shock/consternation, then, when, at the bottom of the largest of the three containers, there was not just yarn, but a tie-top bag containing a whole set of knitting pins, covering most of the sizes required for just about all projects.

How the heck did that get there??? I do not recall ever placing it there. I recognised it as having come from the Edinburgh haul, but I was sure I had passed on all the good stuff to Aitch. Without a word of a lie, I sat baffled, holding that thing for quite some time. It's a total blank. Apart from a few 'ring-ins', the bulk of the needles is definitely a set. They are all of the same type and all in their individual sleeves within the tie-top. They are all steel and clearly quite new. Probably never actually used by my mother. Whether she had ordered them herself or whether they had been a gift to her also remains unanswered. She quite possibly did order them herself. Right up until those last few weeks when she had to go to the hospice, she had something on pins being worked. Working with wool (and other yarns) was her absolute passion. It was also, I suspect, something of a therapy for her and the one thing that kept her together as cancer ate her up. I wouldn't have put it past her to have ordered those pins to feed that need...

Signs And Portents?

Dilemma. Was this (and that impetuous use of the wooden nuisances) some kind of sign? Having made the little beanie, I remembered that knitting was, anyway, never going to be my first love, because it required a slightly different arm position, and I was reminded of my arthritic shoulders and spine. I would never be able to sit for several hours on one project like I do with crochet. Had I squirrelled away the bag simply because it was a full set and in one container? Was it because I couldn't let go of my mother's legacy entirely?

Truly, after two weeks of pondering, I am no closer to remembering how the dickens that bag of pins got into that box of yarn. What I haven't done is seek to add it to the charity pile. Despite the blank, they had been kept for some reason. Maybe, just maybe, twelve years back, when doing the clearout of her cupboards, I heard mum's voice saying, "It's okay now, you can do it just fine"...

Whatever. Among my stash is yarn I bought myself over forty years ago, which has travelled all the way to OZ, been stored there, and returned here. It's time it got used!!! Some very fine pure Shetland wool got cast onto the 3mm pins... 


Aitch spotted it on one of our video chats. What had started as just a play around found a purpose, so she will be getting a scarf in the not-too-distant future. YAM being Yamini, she couldn't just do a simple stocking stitch to get back in the two-pin groove. Oh no. This is a basic lace-stitching pattern: yarn over, knit a stitch, pass yarn off. It gives a loose ribbing effect that is very elastic and slightly 'boucle'. 


Crikey! I could indeed hear mother's voice, but it was laughing, delighted that I had rediscovered this other yarn craft. Am I converting back? No. Crochet is my true skill and will always be my main craft - but now you can expect, once in a while, to be told of a project that is made with two pins, rather than one hook.




15 comments:

  1. Wow, what a story! Amazing!!
    I know the basics of knitting, but like you it is NOT my favorite thing to be doing.So my sewing teacher (!), taught me how to crochet, and I love it! Haven't made anything in years, though...I even have a partly done baby blanket...I 'invent' my own patterns for those, and likely by the time I find time to pick that back up, I will have to think hard about what I had been stitching with, LOL! Like you, my mother was not able to teach me sewing...and she did teach me how to knit, but I had to get a DIY booklet to really understand it. My sewing teacher was a sweet lady from Switzerland, and she was wonderful! I walked to her house every Saturday for a few years, until I had a weekend job.

    Love your beanie and that scarf!

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  2. I’m really enjoying this Saturday feature you have going Yam. Today’s was a great revealing post delving into the whys and wherefores of your yarny talents. A fabulous cup of coffee and sit down read for this warm Melbourne morning.

    Crochet wasn’t a ‘thing’ in our house…….sewing was but that maternal line ‘gene’ passed me by landing on my next sister’s lap……passed by my little sister also - she received the same knitting ‘gene’ as me. Paternal lines often offer something different and it was a love of two needles our father shared with us both. Our surviving granny lived across the water from us in Belfast so learning at her knee didn’t happen- Dad had the patience (lacking in our mother) to show us ‘how to’ aided by the rhyme ‘needle in, wool round, pull through, slip off’

    Trying to learn how to work with a hook as an adult just hasn’t eventuated - I’ve tried, several friends and ‘class leaders’ have tried but my left hand has a mind of its own and can’t control whatever yarn it’s supposed to be holding. It seems to say that’s the right hands job……won’t let me knit continental style (yarn in left hand) either.

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  3. Hi Yam - lots going on ... and you're sorting things out, remembering earlier times ... I can't stand wool ... so anything crocheting or knitting has gone out the window - despite knowing I can get cotton yarn now-a-days ... those early attempts using wool have finished me off. I congratulate you on all your endeavours ... the beanie looks fun (and warm) - cheers Hilary

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  4. Wow - look at you knitting! My mom was a knitter and she taught me how to knit. She sewed and made all of my clothes. Gram was the crocheter and how I wished that I would have asked her to teach me how to crochet. I taught myself one year to crochet and made a lap blanket and believe it or not - I've forgotten how I did it. My mom and gram were very talented woman who did embroidery and smocking and made all sorts of beautiful things. I did end up with mom's knitting needles and I'm very happy to have them.

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  5. Hello, Yam,
    I love the scarf and your cute beanie! It is a nice surprise to find the box with all your Mother's knitting supplies.
    Take care, enjoy your day and happy weekend.

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  6. I love this story and I think its super great you have them and can now use up some of your wool... your freshly knitted beanie matches your out fit perfectly.. Since you wear them in your hutch due to cold weather, you need as many as you can have to keep from constantly washing them. Not sure if they can be washed.
    I can tell you why I don't do either of these OR sewing. In the 9th grade of 12 years of school, I received a failing grade because our project was to make a sheath, sleeveless dress with a side zipper. midway making it, the 3rd or 4th time I ripped out the zipper, I tore the dress in half and did not make another.

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  7. YAM I might have giggled a bit about the knitting pins/ghosts haunting and being intrusive. I had no idea you also knitted. The piece you shared is beautiful and the colors so nice. I tried to knit once....found out my left hand and my right hand live in different zip codes.
    The yarn used for the beanie...fun and I like the variation with the stripes. I thoroughly enjoyed this post.
    Hugs Cecilia

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  8. Oh, das liest sich so vertraut und gleichzeitig so besonders, weil du daraus nicht nur Wolle, sondern Familiengeschichte machst.
    Wie schön, dass ausgerechnet das Häkeln dir damals einen unerwartet warmen Zugang zu deiner Großmutter ermöglicht hat.
    Und ich musste schmunzeln über die verfluchten 10 mm Holznadeln, die dich jahrelang „verfolgen“ und dann plötzlich doch ihre Bühne bekommen.
    Dass du nach so langer Zeit einfach wieder angeschlagen hast, ist richtig stark, wie ein kleines Wiederanknüpfen an dich selbst.
    Der Fund des kompletten Nadelsets wirkt wie eine stille Botschaft aus der Vergangenheit, und deine Gedanken an deine Mutter haben mich berührt.
    Ich finde es sehr fein, wie du ohne Kitsch zeigst, dass Handarbeit Trost sein kann, gerade in schweren Zeiten.
    Dein Dilemma klingt total nachvollziehbar, denn manches hebt man nicht auf, weil es praktisch ist, sondern weil es Halt gibt.
    Und diese letzte Vorstellung, dass deine Mutter innerlich sagt „Jetzt ist alles gut“, hat eine große Ruhe.
    Ich bin gespannt auf die Strickjacke und die kleine Mütze, und ich hoffe, die Shetlandwolle bekommt nun endlich das Projekt, das sie verdient.

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  9. I wish either of my grandmothers or great aunt had taught me to crochet or knit. They all did both, but for some reason it was never passed on. We also didn't live close to either so I wasn't able to spend much time with any of them. I'm glad I learned to crochet back in 2012, but have no interest in learning how to knit. Surprisingly my sister is an accomplished knitter who doesn't crochet. How fun for you to find all those knitting needles and start some projects with them.

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  10. Wowzers! Because I usually read everybody's posts these days on my tablet, at night, in bed (It thinks I am anonymous and that makes it hard to save posts) I don't often get a chance to comment! Very serendipitous that I should read this post! This last week, I have been able to get up and down the basement stairs. We have a crafts day every Thursday at our Social Centre and one of the others was asking if any of us has some fine yarn. I knew that I had some (somewhere) I staggered my way down into the basement and found my stash...(I have NOT looked at it in the 6 years since I moved back from Vancouver) and at the bottom, in a red zippered case, was my Mom's full set of knitting needles! I've not used them since she passed (2001) and totally forgotten that I had them and I too don't remember that they were in the Stash bag or, how they got there. I too prefer to Crochet but I do have friends that knit who will be thrilled to bits to see this selection of sizes. I LOVE the scarf!

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  11. I don't knit. But I do other needle work. My Grandma tatted.

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  12. Congratulations on diversifying the neural pathways. Have you tried knitting as the Skandies do (stitch picking rather than stitch throwing)? I might be easier on the posture. Brits watching me knit that way sometimes confuse it with crochet!

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    1. Hari Om
      Funny you should mention, I have watched a few videos about that recently... though to be honest, I think as a crocheter that might result in some confusion... like the left or right driving conundrum! Yxx

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  13. Well done. There are so many questions I have about what happened with one thing and another. I find it funny pondering things lost and found. I shall never know. XX

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  14. Those are so beautiful. Love the textures. XX

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