The respite at the Hutch hasn't, perhaps, been as restful or restorative as it might be. There have been rumblings from Edinburgh as Mac2 has faced up to some of the difficulties of caring for one's ailing and ageing parent. Then there is the ongoing issue of getting things more formal in place for father. Mac1 has managed to start the process of upgrading the flooring in dad's room, to aid the movement of the hospital bed, auto-chair and other equipment. From my side, negotiations have been initiated with a care company who have said they are willing to take on new clients. We really want that in place before any 'second wave' arrives...
While there is some way to go yet, there is a sense of the proverbial light v tunnel. A more defined path in the next level of cares feels as if it may be sorting itself out. (And such is the state of mind, that one crosses one's fingers and offers up a prayer that saying this out loud is no jinx...)
There have been a few more sleepless nights than would have been expected. Whatever. As you read this I will either already be on the way back East - or have managed to delay it till Sunday. Either way, by Sunday night I am back on full duty. If the care company proves to be all it seems at this point, I may only have another two or three weeks of the 24/7 and can move into daycares only for five days of the week.
Anyhoo, lots will be happening in September. Unless something major comes in the way of things, we will be settling into a new care regime at some point in the month. Also, there will be a bit of turmoil as we get the bedroom flooring sorted. Mac3 is hopefully also going to be up for a visit - and with any luck, Aitch will be able to come and visit too.
So, I have prepared September's posts based on borrowed material. It will be a month of personal reflection based on Martha Simpson Coaching (a Scottish Executive Professional Development Coach) - she has kindly provided the affirmations for download and I shall be linking her site on each post both in acknowledgement and with gratitude.
It is the "Alphabet of Resilience" - There will be something for everyone in it, I am sure!
There will be a post every day of September except Fridays, in which the 'film club', FFF and a couple of catch-up posts will fill the remaining four days of the thirty. October will see normal service resume!
Bless your heart all the plates are full at the Hutch and E'burgh. I hope and pray the caregiver works out and flooring is a quick job maybe the excellent workers you had when the bath was renovated. Nay the path take be w/o too many curves
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Cecilia
So a new level of life. We hope it will work out at least as well as you are hoping, and maybe even better. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteWishing you well with all this entails ~ ^_^ ~ creative photo
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I understand how stressful all of this is. I hope that it relieves some of the stress on you. Hugs to you.
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ReplyDeleteoh we look forward to that alphabet... and we hope all your plans and wishes for september will work the way you want...
ReplyDeleteHi Yam - I hope you can sort life out for your Dad ... and obviously you all as carers. Well done on getting organised and being prepared ... take care - Hilary
ReplyDeleteWithout all the stresses and weariness of being a 24/7 carer, hopefully you will be able to find the energy and calm to enjoy your Dad in the time that remains to him. I've heard too many carer friends say 'i wish...' after the loved one had gone and they had had time to recover.
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DeleteYes, that is what concerns us most - that we cannot be daughters to dad just now... Yxx
it truly sounds like a 'path of sorts' going on. I pray the path will level out and you will be able to find a way to stand up under the care of your dad.. i wish you the best of luck as you wander this path.. i am not sure i would be posting if i were on your path....
ReplyDeleteWe have our paws crossed that the care company works out for you and your dad.
ReplyDeleteWe hope that everything falls nicely into place for you and your sister and your dad without too much stress.
ReplyDeleteGlad to know that a care home has agreed to accommodate your request, and hopefully the days will be better in the coming month, in all ways. Looking forward to your September posts.
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