Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggnaasshhh!!!
Well - I had been lining up one post and now have to wing it with another. Why? Did I hear you ask? No? Tough. You know by now you are my sounding board and whipping lassos... It is important to be aware that the YAMster may have been a tad sleep deprived. On Tuesday, there had been a 24-hour prayer/chant/ meditation watch, and the six-hour kip that followed may not have been enough to balance the brain. ORrr... long-term readers will also appreciate that despite most of the menoplyxinaemia having finally passed, the legacy of menosoup remains. That said, it is pretty likely that the two things came together in a rare moment with what might, perhaps, be described as menogeddonwithit, which manifests in over-hasty actions performed with minimal brain engagement.
You need to know that I have discovered the one major fly in the Chrome OS ointment; there is no recycle bin. So when little old women start deciding to 'tidy up the files' in an unfamiliar home...
Experienced and as qualified as I am, infallibility is not part of the bio. The signs were there, but the brain juice wasn't and a kind of blindness set in. I just kept hitting the delete button in the images folder. A folder that is not present in any Windows applications. This alone ought to have alerted. Then the constant prompts to 'open a folder' ought to have been another red line. But now I was just in spring-cleaning mode, and nothing was going to stop me.
The result was that all...every single one... of the photos I have been preparing for MY TAKE bloggy and for this one is gone forever because there is no recycle bin. No option of restoring whatsoever. It wouldn't be so bad, but since getting OctoKan, I have failed in my own constant advice. Backups have not been made.
Ssssiiiggghhhhh...
I'll get over it, and a lesson has been learned. That's the way of life, heh na? I'll end the menoloop here and share this link, which offers the current exhibition of Scottish Academicians Arts for sale. If you browse the page, you will perhaps recognise stylistic correlations to my own humble works.
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On a slightly different tack, let me pick up yesterday's post, which begins this month's focus on music as therapy for midweek musicalisms.
Most comments accepted and expressed positive experiences of music as therapy for elders. Quite rightly, though, Gail brought up the point that not everyone responds positively. However, her point pertained to the 'entertainment' aspect often offered in age care facilities. That is subtly different in that, mainly, it does not actively engage the audience, whilst the use of music in therapy does. Even those who have never touched an instrument in their lives to that date can gain great benefit from lifting a triangle or banging a drum. It is the action and the sound that brings some power to them. It can boost a sense of control that is often lost in those years and a sense of ownership for the sound value.
Gail's comment has value too. It is an established fact that we form our musical tastes in our teenage years and can vary that readily throughout our twenties, but once into our thirties and beyond, we tend on the whole not to widen our musical interest (though a few of us - me being one such - remain musically curious). This is why, when entertainment is provided for elders, it tends to centre on the baseline demographic. Thus, for most of the people I had the honour to serve, it was war and post-war sounds that they responded best to. The predominant demographic now is likely to be more 1960s centred, so expect to hear lots of Beatles and Monkeys and Elvis... Then there will always be the group who refuse to listen to anything other than orchestral or opera. And there will always be those who think of music, generally, as just a load of noise. It is likely to come down to what they were exposed and habituated to in those early years. (Read further; this article is basic and 'light'; this one is focused on clinical research.)
It is also true that as we age, our ability to listen is altered. (Read further.) There is research also into the cognitively protective benefits of actively playing an instrument or being engaged significantly with music. (Read further. 1 and, read further. 2)
It is worth adding that some are musical misanthropes. Musical anhedonia is a neurological condition characterised by an inability to derive pleasure from music. People with this condition can recognise and understand music but fail to enjoy it.
Anyway, that's enough of that. While being deprived of one source of blog fodder, another was created. Be thankful for that, YAM - even if the readers are now bored out of their skulls!!!
PS - A very important one... this is not light viewing, but it is an essential message... it may ask you to click through to the tubular to watch it... which you can safely do - or use this link.
I am so sorry for your loss of all those pictures! I recall once deleting our web site. Fortunately my daughter knew how to retrieve it from the recycle bin. I've never emptied mine since them. Probably hogging up half my computer!
ReplyDeletesometimes such things happen what let us scream... and sometimes we get the lost things back by accident....miracles happen sometimes...
ReplyDeleteNo recycle bin? Ouch?
ReplyDeleteOne more point on the music topic. Although it is true that music was offered as entertainment in my mother's care home and I don't recall music therapy sessions being offered, I am 99.999% certain that my mother would not have responded well to being asked to hit a triangle! She was exposed to a lot of church music in her childhood, having attended a convent boarding school from the age of five, but when it came to planning her funeral we all struggled to recall her ever mentioning a hymn that the liked. At my father's nursing facility for advanced dementia patients they did hold music therapy sessions, but these distressed my father quite a lot. Admittedly he was by then at that stage where pretty much any unfamiliar event, especially one involving any sort of noise, distressed him. I do understand that my parents are not typical cases.
The day here started badly as I forgot to put Bertie's belly band on last night and woke to a small but smelly pool of dog urine on my down duvet...
Cheers! Gail.
Hari OM
DeleteOh, dear - hope the day has been getting better! I just had 12 straight hours of catchup sleep, and you'd think that would have been a good thing - but now I have 'sleep hangover'!!! A few cuppas in order...
Just to round off - your folks are more typical than you realise; I would say that half our residents at The Tower did not wish to be part of the music group and even for the entertainments we had some real 'hold outs'. Part of that is dementia but part is just that the older we get the less we can be bothered with frivolity! From what you say of your mother, she could very well have been assessed with anhedonia. However, the point is that for those who do partake, great benefit is derived. As will be seen in a later video, not just mental, but very physical and medical improvements can be gained. Yxx
I am someone who finds it hard to enjoy music that others love. maybe a mutant combined of musical misanthropes. Musical anhedonia which Is all new to me.. most restruants play music and most of the time it makes me crazy.
ReplyDeleteI don't enjoy concerts. I do like some music and do like to dance to it, but a concert there might be 3 songs I like.
nuff said... I am so happy you told us about your mishap and I will be more careful. I know you have probably thought about this but just in case, did you go to DRIVE on google page and look in the one that says TRASH. i found some of my things in there... I am still getting used to how to save things while on this new contraption
and still have not conquered it completely.
YAM...being sleep deprived is horrible. I have had many years of it...that being my worst symptom of aging.
ReplyDeleteFor so long I tried to figure it out keeping lists of food, activities. But have finally come to realize it is never just one thing. I'm happy I have more sleep filled nights than the past.
I'm so sad and heart broken for all in the midst of this criminal madness in Ukraine and for the Russian citizens too.
Hugs Cecilia
Loss of photos - that's terrible, I'm so sorry. I hope you're catching up on sleep and feeling better overall. Can't imagine anyone who doesn't enjoy music of some sort...The war is just turning my head inside out, as if covid wasn't enough to be getting on with!
ReplyDeleteI feel your pain of lost photos. I even thought I had them backed up but was in error due to internet problems. And then there is Putin. I have wondered how much top security info on the West was made available during visits to the White House. Maybe by accident when the visitors were in the Oval Office and security documents were on the desk. namaste, janice xx
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