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Me-No-Owerit; Fighting Fear-bruary

Long-term readers will recall that this is my least favourite month. Regarding my state of mind and emotions, the shortest of months seems interminable to me. Some years are better than others, and there is no question that the previous five years were among the darkest at this time. '20 to '24 were real struggles during Fear-bruary. 

As we entered this year's F-month, I admit to tending to my natural cocooning habit, which is the default coping mechanism. I'm very good at shutting out the world.

However, it has been a little different thus far because I was prised out of my Hutch in January to attend the memorial in Aberdeen. Thus, I have been out on the road, which is a novelty for this season. It is not an unwelcome alternative distraction and has prevented a total chrysalis state. It started with being able to linger for three nights at Hazlehead Park and recuperate, first, from the onslaught of crowds. I drove south for a night at St Cyrus Nature Reserve and then spent two nights at Ferryden...



That little bit of heaven can be viewed from The Grey. I was even able to sit with the van door open for part of the day. I got this interesting shot of a passing vessel through the flyscreen, creating a canvas-paintery look.


The next stopover was back at Friockheim, which is fast becoming as fond a long-term park-up spot to me as Lanark is in the borders. Despite overnight hard frosts, the days were bright, and I was again able to sit with the doors and windows open.

On my last day there, I took The Grey over to The Hub for a full charge-up whilst I made use of the shower facilities, had lunch, and then tea.


The carrot and coriander soup with cheese toastie was perfect for a wintry day. I must say, The Hub was hooching with folk that Friday; I've never seen it that busy. So full was it I offered two ladies who needed the seats to share my table. This turned out to be very entertaining, as I learned that Sylvia (in the blue) was born and bred in the village, and her friend, Joyce, was from Arbroath (about a 20-minute drive). They had been at school together, and here they are now, both 76 years young and still going strong. (I used the magic eraser on the photo to remove all the other folk there...)




Honestly, they were comical and would make a great double-act on stage!!! It was a spontaneous and unexpected but very welcome interlude and set me in a positive frame of mind for the drive down to Cowdenbeath later that day. I hope I meet them again when once more up that way.

Two nights at the Fife town car park stop - not fancy, but functional. Sunday, it was down to Edinburgh...



14 comments:

  1. I dislike this month too... but your soup is like the magic potion we need to beat this winter blues...

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  2. I think many people dislike February - it's a miserable, nothing month in many ways, but look a little closer, and there's life and hope.

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  3. I don't have a month I fear, and here Feb is bright and sunny and our best of all weather. that makes me wonder if it is weather related that you fear Feb. i have 6 months I fear now, that would be the approaching hurricane season with August/Octorber the most feared. so glad you found someone to have fun with and lift your Feb fears... they look like they are a hoot... good job on the erasing making the place look empty.. excelent shot, hope you sent them this photo

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  4. In February we'll see the early wildflowers and daffodils and the earliest blooming plums on the coast of Northern California. For those reasons as well as my husband 's birthday and our wedding anniversary, I happily look forward to February.

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  5. Great to read your post. Safe travels.

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  6. I like reading your travel post. It is nice to meet new people along the way. I am looking forward to spring, we are having an icy rain this morning. I hope the rest of February is good to you! Take care, have a happy day!

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  7. I like February. The days are getting longer and the sun is higher in the sky. The warmth on one’s back when going for a walk is really pleasant. By the end of the month there will be snowdrops and the cardinals will be singing. I am glad that sharing your table worked out so well and perhaps you have made a couple of new chums. Keep on travelling!

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  8. Thankfully, February is a short month and if it's not too cold and snowy, it's okay with me. Soup is always the cure for cold weather!

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  9. Sylvia and Joyce would fit nicely into today's poem...BUT their attire is much more to my tasted.
    February has been like a yoyo here 78 deg Tuesday, barely 45 yesterday and 67 today....cool again for the weekend.
    Today was my grocery and errand day getting a late start.
    Hugs to you and Big thank you to The Grey for taking care of you body and soul
    Cecilia

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  10. It sounds like traveling during this month might help lighten your mood. How fun to have a nice lunch with to funny ladies.

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  11. We hope that you have more good travel adventures this month and get to meet up again with Sylvia and Joyce - they sound quite entertaining.

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  12. It is wonderful seeing out and about and enjoying yourself during your most challenging month!!

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  13. Nice to see you too once in a while in some snap.

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